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hackwriter's avatar

Great items on this list. I'm happy to see craft on here; I think I'm lacking a bit of that right now.

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Janet Still aka pen names's avatar

All of the ABOVE! Thank you for keeping our spirits up.

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Jo Gatford's avatar

❤️

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Silver Mary's avatar

This article matches my situation! I have had a blast in writing the last week's. Now I've hit a construction topic with my plot, finding holes, moving scenes, comparing the premise of each plot with my actual writing. I know it is very valuable work to play around with my plot cards, yet there's a tiny voice mocking myself for not writing more words.

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Jo Gatford's avatar

Tell the mocking voice that this is just another — entirely valid — part of the process. If you didn't stop to assess, shuffle, and get an objective view of the situation you'd just write yourself off a cliff... ;)

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Jo Shaw's avatar

I love that you included arts and crafts! I've been crafting and sewing a fair amount recently, and often feel like that's irrelevant to writing, but you're right--it's been so restorative!

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Jo Gatford's avatar

Isn't it? I feel like it activates the same part of my brain as writing does, somehow. Or at the very least, it's so regulating. What are you crafting?

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Suzanne S. Austin-Hill's avatar

Waiting patiently to hear from my Muse. 👂🏽

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Jo Gatford's avatar

I find my muse doesn't like it when I look directly at her... but keeping my creative brain busy with some of those 'art-adjacent' activities above sometimes tempts her out to peek over my shoulder and say "hey, pay attention to me, instead!"

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Suzanne S. Austin-Hill's avatar

My Muse is the quiet type. She’s like a fairy in my pocket, always with me. She whispers the topic of the next pen-to-paper experience. It’s about

4:30PM. Nothing yet for today’s Stafford Challenge post.

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Suzanne S. Austin-Hill's avatar

She came through on a RAFT (Phyllis Cole-Dai) Joyster ZOOM meeting

7-8:30PM. She's worth waiting for; not that I really have a viable option.

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Karin Eaton's avatar

This is very useful stuff to think about.

In November I am lazy (maybe call it unmotivated) physically and mentally. That's my justification for not filling the blank pages. For now. My Muse needs a poke and I hoping the month long poetry course I've signed up for starting later this month, will kick me into high gear. Thanks for your post.

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Jo Gatford's avatar

Lazy or... taking a well-earned break after 10 months of <this>? Poetry also sounds like a gentle poke in the muse lol. Enjoy!

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Annie Grace Bassage's avatar

I stop writing when I believe that Everyone else is a better writer than I!

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Jo Gatford's avatar

Hmmm, I suspect "everyone else" spends a whole lot of time thinking that "everyone else" is better than them, too... But who's the arbiter of all this judgement? And why should that stop you writing?

Because I bet YOU'RE also a better writer than you were a year ago, which is really the only comparison you ought to be doing. And if that's the case, then it stands to reason you'll continue to better yourself the *more* you write, right? ;)

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Marilyn's avatar

Correction when I’m not writing, I’m out bike riding and that’s when a lot of ideas come to me. Thank you for this great list and for giving us permission not to write.

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Jo Gatford's avatar

Something magical about being on the move — I find the same with walking, running, even riding on the bus!

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Marilyn's avatar

When I’m riding I listen music and writing podcasts. I also read and talk to my plants. All this week, I’ve been encouraging my cactus plant to bloom and I see pink buds on the tips!

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Jo Gatford's avatar

The plant-talk is the most adorable thing. Yay lil cactus!! (Maybe we should talk to our stories that way, too...)

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Sharon Neiss's avatar

This article is simply brilliant because it's so true! Some of my best ideas occur when I am not writing - but doing other "things". And paying attention to the subtle messages that fall on your lap. Thank you for sharing this.

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Jo Gatford's avatar

Ahh I'm so glad it resonated. And oof yes those subtle messages... often when you're really not thinking about writing at all!

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Melissa Fraterrigo's avatar

Yes to reading and talking about stories!!

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Jo Gatford's avatar

:D

Whatcha workin on?

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Amanda Baker-Frommholz's avatar

Not writing at the moment, because I don't have the energy to look for beta readers for 2 sci fi books and am rather busy with the day job. Crocheting, choir and maybe an improv course are keeping me going, while my subconscious is churning.

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Jo Gatford's avatar

Love these creative sidebar activities (esp improv — it's basically a storytelling workout, right?).

And maybe there are some sci fi readers in The Forever Workshop community who might want to volunteer for beta reading tribute...? Anyone?

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Amanda Baker-Frommholz's avatar

Would of course be happy to reciprocate with beta reading!

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Jo Gatford's avatar

This Feedback Friends speculative call was posted a while ago now, but might be worth checking the comments and DMing anyone who looks like a possible fit?

https://www.theforeverworkshop.com/p/feedback-friends-forever-lets-get

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Amanda Baker-Frommholz's avatar

Thank you!

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